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To Love..

To Love..


Is the hardest thing you will ever encounter in your life.


So before you fall in love with someone or if you have already fallen for someone or are into a relation, you must first understand that love is the hardest thing yet the most beautiful feeling you will ever encounter in your life.

Because, at someone point in your life, may be, you will have to prioritize her happiness and well being over your own. Because, may be, someday, you will have to let her go.

You will have to let her go for the good you wish for her, for the pain she should not bear because of you, for a life that you may not be able to provide her, for her precious smile, for her peace of mind and her happiness that she may get only after getting away from you. Peace that she may not get being with you- not just because of you, but may be because of the society or her parents or her nature and may be because of your own nature too.

To love..

Will be the hardest part of your life.

Because, to love someone is to let them go if the situations ask for or demand. Let them go for the good- for the peace she deserves.

And to let her go will be the toughest decision you will ever take in your life.


If you really love her,

You will let her go for the peace and happiness she deserves,

for the peace and happiness that she is not going to get with you.

If you really love her,

You will let her go because you know she deserves more and far better things and a life that she is not going to get being with you.

If you really love her,

You will let her go because you know that even though you are letting her go, even though you are getting apart, even though she is going to rest in the arms of another man, even though you are going to get hurt badly, even though it will make you cry, even though you deserve her too, even though you sacrificed your happiness for her and may be she did not even acknowledged or thanked you, even though she might live a happy ever after life with another man-

You won. She did not.

You proved your love was true.

Your love was eternal and will be living for eternity, her love won’t be.

You proved that you are a man filled with compassion and empathy in heart.


You deserve someone who is going to fill the void, someone who is going to repay and walk parallel to you and settle off the empathy and compassion you have in your heart by giving you equal amount of love that is there in your heart and by feeding you the compassion you deserve and you have in your heart.

Someone to equalize and fit in your comfort as well as discomfort zone- someone who fits into your nature and adjusts the way a caterpillar adjusts in the cocoon; without complaining a lot.

Someone who will understand the pain you have been through.


To love..

Will be the hardest part of your life, because…

Even after letting her go, you may miss her badly at times. You may want to listen to her voice. You may want to text her, and even if you did, you may not get a reply. You may want to see  her. You may want to talk to her just for a minute.

But sadly, you won’t be able to.

Because she might have already moved on.

And someday, you will realize this, and you will have to move on too.

Ajit Singh Guller
I share my thoughts, experiences, and experiments with life here; some brutal, some pleasant. And I try to write something useful for people as well as for me.

I am not a professional philosopher, and I do not wish to be.

I write here because I want to, because this is what satisfies my soul, because I feel complete, because this is in my nature; not because I have to.

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